Exploring your Divine Masculine
Are you constantly hearing about divine masculine, and yet not sure if you ‘’have it’’?
This is a more in-depth understanding of what divine masculine is and how you can activate/embody and live with it.
Just a side note-We all have divine masculine and divine feminine no matter of gender.
You might get in touch with divine masculine and divine feminine with other names such as yin and yang or just a balance in your life.
before we start, you might have different pictures or perspectives in your head, which is completely fine. Our society showed us a different perspective which is quite opposite of what divine masculine is.
Maybe you are thinking about this: Many people are picturing divine masculine with the tough guys, big muscles, egoistic behaviour to the others or just being ‘’macho’’.This has nothing to do with masculine energy, this is a reflection of our EGO. The divine masculine is from within, it has nothing to do with your muscles or the fact you’re being cocky or not.
To get the most out of this lesson we have to be on the same page and make sure we both are talking about apples and not about oranges.
Let’s get to the juice and dive deeper into divine masculine.
First of all, as I mention above, we all have both, feminine and masculine energy. Some people are having the best life ever just because they did the deep work and find and accepted both energies within.
Masculine — Structure (get things done,confidence,self-trust,decisions)
Feminine — Sweetness (emotions, self-love, acceptance)
You might be expressing one or repelling other the goal is to find the balance.
When we talk about divine masculine we are talking about moving energy -being present, being grounded, know what to do, have a clarity, know your vision, you have a laser focus on whatever you do every time. You are creating a safe space for everyone around you, you are radiate the high vibrations and you are confident within, you trust yourself.
Many people are thinking about this energy as something you grow up to, which is not true at all. This energy has nothing to do with your age. I know many men who are not confident, who are constantly looking for permission who are still living as a young boy inside and did not embody the divine masculine yet.
Your body can be older, but inside yourself you’re still shy young boy or girl, looking for approval, not thrusting himself, confused and constantly overthinking.
Let me ask you this…
— Do you remember that person who is constantly charismatic? Someone who has, some magic you cannot describe? Even though the look doesn’t match anything ‘’gods-like’’ but something inside is attracting you so much. This is the energy of divine masculine we’re talking about.
This is not a requirement for you to be able to live your life. But If you want to attract the right partner in your life, you want to be your true and best version of yourself this is ‘’the must’’ think to do to get there. Think about it like a piece of a puzzle, if you are missing this piece you cannot be the best version of yourself in every aspect of your life.
We're talking about-Relationship, Money, Business, Spirituality, Passion, Purpose, Health, Mindset, Energy, Emotions, Collaboration to the world
Yes, We are getting there!
These are some facts which are constantly showing you that you did not fully embody your divine masculine energy within.
-You might constantly overthink: Have you ever get to the point where something has happened and you were thinking about 3–4 steps ahead of the process and most of the time is the worst-case scenario?
(Don’t worry I’ve been there too)
-You are not in the present moment: Even, when you do something, your mind is going everywhere and you cannot focus on this one task in front of you. You cannot ground yourself into the present moment.
-You are running around to be seen and heard: When you do something, you might go tell the whole process what you had to go through or the fact that you just finished everything.
-You cannot decide what to do next/where to go eat etc: This is not about choice this is about having clarity what you want to do next. When your girlfriend is answering to your questions ‘’I don’t know’’ They are looking for your divine masculine energy inside you to decide and lead.
-You are constantly asking or looking for permission: Whatever you want to do, you first ask your spouse your boyfriend/girlfriend your best friend about their opinion.
You are giving away your power: if you are afraid to step up for yourself to speak your truth or even ask a waitress in the restaurant who might miscalculate your bill and you are afraid to tell them about the mistake or let someone else deal with that, this is the way how you are giving your masculine power away
-You are not trusting yourself: Think about this differently, you have always dreamed about you as a someone who is confident, charismatic, amazing with people, right? but when it comes to an action your body doesn’t match your vision of being that person. Simply your behaviour doesn’t follow your actions.
These are just a few blind spots man and woman can experience every single day. The good news is that you can transform and wake up your divine masculine and fully embody this energy to be productive to have clarity in your life and most importantly to trust yourself.
You will find out how to wake up your divine masculine. You have to know what it’s like to become one.
When you fully embody your divine masculine you might realise that all the power is going within, you’re not reliable or dependent on the external world or people around you. You fully trust yourself because you are the creator of your life. You are in the present moment, you are creating your reality, you are owning the room where you go (in the humble way, not the ego-driven way)
You know your truth, you are creating a safe space for everyone around you,You are confident within, your body language will change and follow your state automatically, your chest is open, your voice is lauder and clear, you are connecting with other through the eyes and you’re moving energy, every step you do, you know that this is the best step ever you are enough, you are trusting yourself and you are fully capable of everything you set your mind to because you’re the creator of your reality. This is how powerful this energy is within you.
Read it one more time and visualise yourself as if.
All this is coming from within you, and this picture could help you embody your divine masculine when you decide to do the exercise below and wake up this energy.
The only thing you ‘’have to do'' is look inside you and find it and wake up that energy, that confident, that superpower.
Let’s get practical, shall we?
So how can you find your divine masculine within? It’s already there so it’s really simple. There are many ways from activations, breathwork or moving your body.
— I want to share with you these 3 simple, yet very powerful
tools, on how you can embody the divine masculine.
1)Journaling- Really feel, visualise yourself being that person living that life right now. Answer these questions to get super clear on your vision.
-How do I feel every morning?(am I confident, am I trusting myself, am I the creator of my reality)
-How do handle situations?(am I leading and deciding what to do or am I giving away my power to someone else)
-How do I walk?(am I grounded, Do I know what I’m doing, am I having clarity in my next step?am I present at this moment?)
-How do I breathe?(Do I breathe into my belly? Do I breathe enough, Do my nervous system is taking control of my body?)
-How is my body language?(Do I walking straight? Are my shoulders open?)
-How do I talk?(Am I rushing somewhere or I’m confident with my every step)
2)Recall it during the day-Set and intention- ''I remember who I am''
''I choose to embody my best version of myself right now, and so it is!''
3)‘’Act like if’’ it’s already your life-Become this person, behave like your best version during the day (check the bonus tip at the end of the article)
How you might feel first few days?- frustrated, anxious angry or tired…
Why?
Because you are re-programming your subconscious mind, and these are just a few signs of work taking the place.
Everything we do is a pattern and our subconscious mind is running our body/thoughts and so much more, every day this part of our brain. Belief it or not but the subconscious mind has 95% of control of you, every single day and now YOU are saying that you want to be someone else?
This is just an alarm for the subconscious mind that you are doing something different than usual. After a few days when your mind did not get what she wants, she will adjust to the new patterns new reality you just created, your divine masculine. So keep going you got this!
Your subconscious mind doesn’t know the difference between what is real and what is not. This is why visualisation is the game-changer tool to become successful or in this case embody your divine masculine.
Yes, many times you don’t know if you have been acted like divine masculine and that’s not the point of doing this. Yes, journaling will 100% help you in this process because you will discover your blind spots, how did you act in many situations. Every day every situation every ‘’fucked up ‘’ is just a lesson for you to next time know and acknowledge the same behaviour.
You can keep journaling throughout the day and just observe your behaviour, reflect on your day, you can use your notes in phone or journal whatever is most comfortable and available for you.
I do love theory but without implementation, you cannot change anything.
As you might have tried many times before, you set your intention every morning you did your meditation, you are ready to manifest your amazing life but then the rest of the day you are being the same old version of yourself.
Your body cannot change just like that. You have to keep changing your patterns/behaviour to change your environment and manifest whatever you desire.
This is ''BONUS TIP'' and it's very crucial on your journey.
1)Every morning -Journal or recall your divine masculine (do the exercise, answer those questions)
2)Keep in mind your picture of the divine masculine and observe your behaviour during the day.
3)Keep track on the situations when you are not being (behaving) like your divine masculine. (Write them down for yourself)
4)Reflect on those situations to help you next time, see how you embodied your divine masculine in the same situation because now you chose to act like your higher version of yourself.
(Before it was just an old reaction from your old identity, now it's your choice)
I know, this might sound practical for you, but remember this is just a beginning this process requires some time and effort.
Now you have very powerful tools- how subconscious mind works and how to embody your divine masculine the only missing piece, is YOU.
This process is not going to take forever. As you know, Human being is creatures of habits and this is your first habit in your life which will serve you the most. You are creating your best picture from pieces of a puzzle. The best version of yourself in every aspect of your life.
A time period of this being fully adjusted is between 14–40 days.
My question for you is this…Now when you have finally found the answers and you know the tools how to do it. Are you committed to become the best version of yourself?
-Yes, it takes time
-Yes, It's a commitment
-Yes, it’s worth it
I got your back!
-Denis
→ Let’s connect on Instagram
→If you enjoyed this article, I believe you will enjoy these ones as well:
